Old School Blogging: 2013 Re-Cap

I'm joining my friend Elaine over at The Miss Elaine-ous Life today for Old School Blogging! This is a long one but it was crazy to think back over a whole year.  My memory isn't what it used to be!!

2013 Re-cap

1. What did you do in 2013 that you’d never done before?
HUGE bucket list...I traveled to Italy!! It was even better than I imagined.  

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I'm sure I had at least one.  To lose the pesky pounds that I've gained over the past two years.  However, I didn't write it down and I didn't keep it so it doesn't count...right?  For this year, I have so many.  I'm terrible at putting them out there because I don't like to fail but I need the accountability so I'll tell you a few.
a) The pounds.  They need to be lost.  I need less jiggle and more wiggle.  Whatever that means.  I just need to get serious about getting healthy again because I've really let stress take over for the past couple of years.
b) Read more.  As in, real books. With chapters and no pictures.
c) Find something for me.  I spend so much time doing everything that I think will make everyone else happy and I think 2014 needs to be the year that I find some purpose for myself.  What has God called me to do? I have no idea outside of taking care of my husband and kids but I know a few things I love to do and I'm hoping to find ways to incorporate those into my life more.  If I could find what I want to be when I grow up in the process, that would be stellar.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
My cousin's wife had a baby boy and that's the only one I can remember.  There must have been more.

4. Did anyone close to you die?
A sweet lady that I was in Bible study with shortly after we moved here.  It's the strangest thing to me because our Bible study was only 7 weeks long but when she suddenly got sick and passed away afterwards, I felt her loss so deeply.  I am still just so sad about it.  We were a Bible study full of 30 somethings and she was in her 70's yet she really seemed to love being in there with all of us.  She was genuinely the sweetest lady.  I can't explain how she impacted me in the short time I knew her.  

5. What countries did you visit?
England, France, Belgium, Italy and the United States. I think that's it!

6. What would you like to have in 2014 that you lacked in 2013?
Focus. In so many areas.  I need to be more disciplined and I want to focus less on what others think.  I'd like to also focus more on loving those around me.  Survival mode needs to be switched off! Also, exercise.

7. What dates from 2013 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
July 4.  We had just gotten back to the US days before and were celebrating with friends who moved here from England at the same time as us.  We just felt so content and so happy to be home.  
December 30.  Our family was here and we celebrated my amazing husband's promotion.  That night, we stayed up late playing Rock Band and pretending to be rock stars.  It was the most fun EVER.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
I made it through in one piece.  The huge things that made me feel like my world was upside down look smaller in hindsight. 

9. What was your biggest failure?
UGH.  Weight gain.  Plenty of it.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Nothing major.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Hmmmmm.  This is a tough one.  A new car, maybe? We were down to one for our duration in England and it was our giant SUV so when we moved back, we needed to add a second and more economical (re: not a gas hog) vehicle to our family.  

12. Where did most of your money go?
Travel.  Moving expenses.

13. What did you get really excited about?
Finding out our next assignment.  Going to Italy.  Moving.  Finding out that J. made his promotion.  Getting to see family after two years!

14.  What song will always remind you of 2013?
Unfortunately, it will be "What Does the Fox Say?"

15. Compared to this time last year, are you:
happier or sadder? Happier, for sure.
thinner or fatter? I think we've established this.  Don't make me say it again.
richer or poorer?  Hmmm.  The same maybe?

16. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Reading.  Bible study.  Putting myself out there to make new friends.
17. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Stress over the things I couldn't change.
18. How did you spend Christmas?
With my five favorites here at home. It was amazing.
19. What was your favorite TV program?
Blacklist and Castle.
20. What were your favorite books of the year?
The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks.  Amazing.
21. What was your favorite music from this year?
Pitch Perfect soundtrack. Jillian and I dance to it every afternoon while I cook dinner and she unloads the dishwasher.  I will love it forever because of our dance parties.
22. What was your favorite film of the year?
Pitch Perfect. (Duh.)  I didn't get to see it until 2013! Also, Despicable Me 2.  I know, I'm basically a child.
23. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I turned 36 and I had a fun night with my favorites here at home with an amazing cake and takeout. Funny though, I was convinced that I'd turned 36 last year so I spent an entire year telling people that I was 36 only to realize just before my birthday that I was only 35 about to turn 36.  I gained a whole year!
24. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Finding a local group of girlfriends!!
25. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2013?
Oh boy.  It was lacking.  I need to step it up.
26. What kept you sane?
I'd say my sanity is debatable.  :-) Just kidding.  My hunky husband and cute kids.
27. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2013.
That it's ok to do what's best for me and my family even when others don't agree.  That I don't have to feel guilty for other's poor behavior and my inability to change it.  To listen to my intuition and stop apologizing for who I am.  Whew. 

Wow.  That was hard! I had to really think on some of them!! And, I realized that 2013 was LONG and sometimes so hard but I made it through and I'm so thankful for the New Year.